How to Flirt With Women -- 3 Types of Flirting
submitted: 2008-04-05 02:42:34 |
by: T.P.(PhD)
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Flirting with girls is fun. But it doesn't have to be mysterious. Here are three main ways to flirt wtih women.
You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.
Another approach is to respond to them. You wait for them to do something that you have a response prepared for.
You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your preselected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.
Now, let's look at some specific ways you can do these things:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she's in a receptive frame of mind.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you've already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it's easier to be prepared. Here's an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say "Oh, you don't have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]". The downside is that she doesn't always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
TWO-STEP FLIRTING: Suppose you have a line prepared for when a woman bends down to tie her shoe or pick something up off the floor. And suppose when she does that you plan to say "Oh, I don't require people to bow down before me anymore". But suppose she hasn't bent down in front of you yet. You can wait and hope you have a chance to say your flirty line. Or you can set things up. How would you set things up so she bends down in front of you? Well you could secretly take something of hers off the table and put it on the floor, and when she notices and bends down to pick it up, then you could deliver your line.
Those are three great ways to engage a woman in playful banter. You can read more about all of them in the "Flirting Deconstructed".
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